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Discover unique independent living amenities, social activities, dining, and more independent living benefits. With 35 independent living facilities in Selden, A Place for Mom makes it easier to find your new, maintenance-free home.

We are also serving Assisted Living facilities in surrounding neighborhoods like Shorehaven, Harborview and East Norwalk.
You may also consider nearby communities such as Fairfield, Stratford and Milford.

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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Cost of independent living in Selden, NY

The average cost of senior living in Selden is $5,626 per month. Cheaper nearby regions include Westhampton Beach, NY with an average of $4,877 per month.

Independent living costs in Selden, NY, vs. nearby cities

Selden, NY
$5,626/mo

Independent living costs in Selden, NY, vs. state and national averages

Selden, NY
$5,626/mo
U.S. national average
$4,016/mo

Independent living costs in Selden, NY, vs. other senior living options

$6,031/mo
Independent Living
$5,626/mo

Independent living costs in Selden, NY, by floor plan type

Semi-Private
$5,030/mo
Studio
$6,348/mo
1 Bedroom
$7,100/mo
2 Bedroom
$7,482/mo

Senior living costs in Selden vs. state and national costs

Cost comparison table showing community type costs by location. This table contains 3 rows of data across 4 columns.
Column communityType: Community type
Column destination: Selden, NY
Column state: New York
Column national: U.S.
Community typeSelden, NYNew YorkU.S.
Independent Living$5,626/mo$4,409/mo$4,016/mo
Assisted Living$5,814/mo$5,523/mo$4,558/mo
Memory Care$6,031/mo$5,594/mo$4,794/mo
Independent Living
Selden, NY:$5,626/mo
New York:$4,409/mo
U.S.:$4,016/mo
Assisted Living
Selden, NY:$5,814/mo
New York:$5,523/mo
U.S.:$4,558/mo
Memory Care
Selden, NY:$6,031/mo
New York:$5,594/mo
U.S.:$4,794/mo
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Independent living costs in Selden, NY, over time

The line graph below shows how monthly independent living costs have shifted over the past five years in Selden and how those changes compare with state and national trends. The figures represent quarterly averages of what seniors actually paid after moving into A Place for Mom partner communities.

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Independent living cost trends in Selden, NY

The table below shows how monthly independent living costs in Selden have changed in the last two years and how those changes compare with state and national trends. The figures represent averages of actual costs paid by seniors who moved into A Place for Mom partner communities in 2023 and 2024.

Cost comparison table showing 2023 and 2024 median costs by location. This table contains 3 rows of data across 4 columns.
Column location: Location
Column cost2024: 2024 average cost
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Location2024 average cost2023 average costPercent change
Selden, NY$4,436/mo$4,708/mo-5.8%
New York$3,729/mo$3,606/mo+3.4%
National$3,243/mo$3,151/mo+2.9%
Selden, NY
2024 average cost:$4,436/mo
2023 average cost:$4,708/mo
Percent change:-5.8%
New York
2024 average cost:$3,729/mo
2023 average cost:$3,606/mo
Percent change:+3.4%
National
2024 average cost:$3,243/mo
2023 average cost:$3,151/mo
Percent change:+2.9%
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What families are saying about independent living in Selden

Recent reviews for independent living in Selden

The Bristal at East Northport

4.5
The staff at the East Northport Bristal is always kind. They always have a smile on their faces and are genuinely sweet and loving to my mom. The facility is ALWAYS spotless and beautiful to live in or visit. The only area I see occasional improvement for is the food. It is not always hot and ...
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The Bristal at Massapequa

5.0
the community is very good. They have great communication, and the community is very safe. there is nothing that I don't like in this community. I would recommend this community to others

Orchard Estate of Woodbury

3.4
For the overall experience I would have given it a five, except for some minor things, like the air conditioning condensation drips from the ceiling, and creates a slipping hazard for the residents, which I have brought to the attention of the Director and he seemed nonplussed about. He really ...
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Selden independent living services and amenities

These charts highlight some of the many care, dining, and entertainment offerings available in Selden independent living communities. They don’t represent all possible services and amenities available at assisted living communities in Selden, but support comparisons against nationwide offerings. Our Senior Living Advisors can help you find communities that fit your preferences.

Availability of select dietary accommodations in Selden independent living

Independent living communities help seniors maintain a balanced diet by accommodating their health needs, allergies, and other restrictions. Below you’ll find the percentage of Selden partners making specific dietary accommodations for seniors compared to the percentage of assisted living partners making those accommodations nationally.
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Nutritionist / dietician
Nutritionist / dietician
41.4%
20.5%
Low / no sodium
Low / no sodium
51.7%
34.1%
No sugar
No sugar
51.7%
31.5%
Vegetarian
Vegetarian
34.5%
33.6%
Pureed meals
Pureed meals
17.2%
8.1%
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Availability of select dining options in Selden independent living

Our independent living communities know that seniors want top-quality meals and options for how they dine. The chart below indicates the percentage of Selden communities that offer dining options to their discerning residents compared to our partners nationally.
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Professional chef
Professional chef
48.3%
36.5%
Restaurant style dining
Restaurant style dining
55.2%
43.5%
Room service
Room service
31%
36.9%
Anytime dining
Anytime dining
6.9%
17.4%
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Availability of select programs and activities in Selden independent living

Senior living communities offer a variety of programming to keep seniors socially, mentally, and physically vibrant. The chart below shows what percentage of partnered independent living communities in Selden offer the selected activities, amenities, and programs compared to the percentage of partners nationwide.
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Activity director
Activity director
51.7%
45.3%
Pet-focused programs
Pet-focused programs
48.3%
28.4%
Community service programs
Community service programs
44.8%
32.8%
Devotional activities on-site
Devotional activities on-site
48.3%
49.3%
Parties / BBQs / happy hour
Parties / BBQs / happy hour
55.2%
49.8%
Outings / off-site activities
Outings / off-site activities
72.4%
54.9%
Piano or organ
Piano or organ
44.8%
43.1%
Arts and crafts center
Arts and crafts center
58.6%
37.7%
Educational speakers / life long learning
Educational speakers / life long learning
51.7%
41.7%
Clubs / games / karaoke
Clubs / games / karaoke
58.6%
47.5%
Live performances
Live performances
55.2%
47.3%
Dances
Dances
55.2%
32.6%
Fitness center
Fitness center
34.5%
39.8%
Fitness classes
Fitness classes
58.6%
47%
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Atria Hertlin Place, Whisper Woods of Smithtown and Sunrise of East Setauket are the top-rated independent living facilities near Selden, New York. See full list of communities.
There are 35 independent living facilities near Selden, New York. See the full list.
The best independent living facilities near you in Selden, New York are The Watermark at 3030 Park, a CCRC, Atria Hertlin Place and Atria Huntington. These independent living communities received the highest rankings based on verified family reviews.
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