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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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This is a smaller community so there is room for them to be very personable here. They know everyone's little quirks. Everyone here are great. It is more independant living here so they don't have a medical...
Provides: Independent Living
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Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Independent Living
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Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Independent Living
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Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Provides: Senior Apartments
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Independent Living
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Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Independent Living
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Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Senior Apartments
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Provides: Assisted Living, Independent Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Senior Apartments
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Assisted Living, Independent Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Senior Apartments
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Photo of Wewoka Housing Authorities
Provides: Assisted Living, Nursing Homes
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Nursing Homes: Nursing homes provide short-and long-term care for seniors who have physical or mental health conditions that require 24-hour nursing and personal care.
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Provides: Senior Apartments
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Provides: Senior Apartments
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Senior Apartments
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Provides: Independent Living
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Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Independent Living
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Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Senior Apartments
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Assisted Living, Nursing Homes
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Nursing Homes: Nursing homes provide short-and long-term care for seniors who have physical or mental health conditions that require 24-hour nursing and personal care.
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Provides: Independent Living
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Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.

Cost of independent living in Milfay, OK

The average cost of senior living in Milfay is $3,860 per month. Cheaper nearby regions include Carney, OK with an average of $2,601 per month.

Independent living costs in Milfay, OK, vs. nearby cities

Milfay, OK
$3,860/mo
$3,976/mo
$3,965/mo

Independent living costs in Milfay, OK, vs. state and national averages

Milfay, OK
$3,860/mo
U.S. national average
$4,024/mo

Independent living costs in Milfay, OK, vs. other senior living options

$4,701/mo
Independent Living
$3,860/mo

Independent living costs in Milfay, OK, by floor plan type

Studio
$2,565/mo
1 Bedroom
$3,142/mo
2 Bedroom
$3,927/mo
Detached Cottage/Bungalow
$4,535/mo

Senior living costs in Milfay vs. state and national costs

Cost comparison table showing community type costs by location. This table contains 3 rows of data across 4 columns.
Column communityType: Community type
Column destination: Milfay, OK
Column state: Oklahoma
Column national: U.S.
Community typeMilfay, OKOklahomaU.S.
Independent Living$3,860/mo$3,774/mo$4,024/mo
Assisted Living$4,667/mo$4,370/mo$4,565/mo
Memory Care$4,701/mo$4,339/mo$4,803/mo
Independent Living
Milfay, OK:$3,860/mo
Oklahoma:$3,774/mo
U.S.:$4,024/mo
Assisted Living
Milfay, OK:$4,667/mo
Oklahoma:$4,370/mo
U.S.:$4,565/mo
Memory Care
Milfay, OK:$4,701/mo
Oklahoma:$4,339/mo
U.S.:$4,803/mo
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Discover the many ways to pay for senior living

Planning ahead can better position you to make good choices for your loved one’s care in the future. But if your aging family member needs care now, there are ways to finance the cost of long-term care through a combination of approaches.

What families are saying about independent living in Milfay

Recent reviews for independent living in Milfay

Heatheridge Assisted Living in Tulsa, OK

5.0
When my loved one is ill and something happens they are not notifying anyone in the family. I mean outside of that he is good but the communication is awful.

Morada Broken Arrow

5.0
I was worried my husband wouldn't like it, but we both love it due to the high marks given on the items listed above. This is exactly where we need to be at this time in our life. We have health issues but can still live independently to a large degree and can use help with daily items that ...
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Canoe Brook Assisted Living - Broken Arrow

5.0
My Mom and our family love Canoe Brook Broken Arrow. We looked at many places before moving Mom to assisted living four years ago. Mom feels so safe, and she is well looked after. All of the staff is so good to Mom, and are always willing to answer any question I may have. I feel as if they are ...
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Milfay independent living services and amenities

These charts highlight some of the many care, dining, and entertainment offerings available in Milfay independent living communities. They don’t represent all possible services and amenities available at assisted living communities in Milfay, but support comparisons against nationwide offerings. Our Senior Living Advisors can help you find communities that fit your preferences.

Availability of select dietary accommodations in Milfay independent living

Independent living communities help seniors maintain a balanced diet by accommodating their health needs, allergies, and other restrictions. Below you’ll find the percentage of Milfay partners making specific dietary accommodations for seniors compared to the percentage of assisted living partners making those accommodations nationally.
Milfay, OKNational
Nutritionist / dietician
Nutritionist / dietician
25.3%
20.3%
Low / no sodium
Low / no sodium
21.8%
34%
No sugar
No sugar
20.7%
31.4%
Vegetarian
Vegetarian
21.8%
33.4%
Pureed meals
Pureed meals
8%
7.8%
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Availability of select dining options in Milfay independent living

Our independent living communities know that seniors want top-quality meals and options for how they dine. The chart below indicates the percentage of Milfay communities that offer dining options to their discerning residents compared to our partners nationally.
Milfay, OKNational
Professional chef
Professional chef
18.4%
36.4%
Restaurant style dining
Restaurant style dining
28.7%
43.4%
Room service
Room service
28.7%
36.8%
Anytime dining
Anytime dining
10.3%
17.2%
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Availability of select programs and activities in Milfay independent living

Senior living communities offer a variety of programming to keep seniors socially, mentally, and physically vibrant. The chart below shows what percentage of partnered independent living communities in Milfay offer the selected activities, amenities, and programs compared to the percentage of partners nationwide.
Milfay, OKNational
Activity director
Activity director
32.2%
45.3%
Pet-focused programs
Pet-focused programs
24.1%
28.3%
Community service programs
Community service programs
24.1%
32.7%
Devotional activities on-site
Devotional activities on-site
37.9%
49.2%
Parties / BBQs / happy hour
Parties / BBQs / happy hour
32.2%
49.8%
Outings / off-site activities
Outings / off-site activities
33.3%
54.9%
Piano or organ
Piano or organ
28.7%
43%
Arts and crafts center
Arts and crafts center
23%
37.6%
Educational speakers / life long learning
Educational speakers / life long learning
27.6%
41.6%
Clubs / games / karaoke
Clubs / games / karaoke
32.2%
47.4%
Live performances
Live performances
31%
47.2%
Dances
Dances
21.8%
32.4%
Fitness center
Fitness center
13.8%
39.7%
Fitness classes
Fitness classes
32.2%
46.9%
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Legacy Village of Stillwater, Country Club At Woodland Hills and Brookdale Broken Arrow are the top-rated independent living facilities near Milfay, Oklahoma. See full list of communities.
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