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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Southern HighlandsSouthern Highlands is located in National City, California. With a population of approximately 65,000 people, it is a small town and the second oldest city in San Diego County. United in 1887, National City was initially part of a 26,000 acre named El Rancho de la Nacion. After...
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Fredericka Manor is an excellent residence for seniors. My mother has lived here since 2006. However, they just announced that they are closing their Care Center (June 2023). This means that residence...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Senior Apartments
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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I would pass by Park and 5th Apartments when I lived on "G" and Broadway and say "when I'm 55 I'll go and live there." Well, I became 68 and the rent went up where I used to live, so I put an application in...
Provides: Senior Apartments
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Park 5th Avenue is a 55 and over community located in Chula Vista, San Diego County, CA. The bustling city of Chula Vista is the second largest city in the San Diego metropolitan area, and it is home to numerous dining, shopping and entertainment opportunities. Otay Ranch Town Center is the...
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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The place is beautiful and well cared for. Everyone is extremely friendly and ready to help. They maintain a high level of care for the people there and attend to their personal needs. I feel very...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Provides: Senior Apartments
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Independent Living
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Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Senior Apartments
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Provides: Senior Apartments
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Join us at CalOaks CalOaks offers continuing residential care for seniors. We provide a home with a congenial atmosphere that encourages the freedom to enjoy life in a peaceful and quiet environment with the help of our understanding and well-trained staff. We are committed to providing our...
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Provides: Assisted Living, Independent Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Provides: Senior Apartments
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Provides: Independent Living
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Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Independent Living
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Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Senior Apartments
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Independent Living
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Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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This is a very nice community. I highly recommend it for the great staff and the excellent meals that they give my mom. They offer a variety of activities to choose from. They show that they care about the...
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Hallmark Assisted Living of Palm SpringsHallmark Assisted Living of Palm Springs is the kind of assisted living communities that allows its residents to enjoy the kind of freedom that they deserve. Located in the beautiful desert resort city of Palm Springs, CA, this community is just a mile from...
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.

Cost of independent living in Lilac, CA

The average cost of senior living in Lilac is $4,273 per month. Cheaper nearby regions include Lake Riverside, CA with an average of $2,944 per month.

Independent living costs in Lilac, CA, vs. nearby cities

Lilac, CA
$4,273/mo
$4,985/mo
$5,110/mo

Independent living costs in Lilac, CA, vs. state and national averages

Lilac, CA
$4,273/mo
U.S. national average
$4,016/mo

Independent living costs in Lilac, CA, vs. other senior living options

$5,858/mo
Independent Living
$4,273/mo

Independent living costs in Lilac, CA, by floor plan type

Semi-Private
$4,699/mo
Studio
$5,185/mo
1 Bedroom
$5,850/mo
2 Bedroom
$6,977/mo
Detached Cottage/Bungalow
$8,397/mo

Senior living costs in Lilac vs. state and national costs

Cost comparison table showing community type costs by location. This table contains 3 rows of data across 4 columns.
Column communityType: Community type
Column destination: Lilac, CA
Column state: California
Column national: U.S.
Community typeLilac, CACaliforniaU.S.
Independent Living$4,273/mo$4,504/mo$4,016/mo
Assisted Living$4,376/mo$4,369/mo$4,558/mo
Memory Care$5,858/mo$5,269/mo$4,794/mo
Independent Living
Lilac, CA:$4,273/mo
California:$4,504/mo
U.S.:$4,016/mo
Assisted Living
Lilac, CA:$4,376/mo
California:$4,369/mo
U.S.:$4,558/mo
Memory Care
Lilac, CA:$5,858/mo
California:$5,269/mo
U.S.:$4,794/mo
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Independent living costs in Lilac, CA, over time

The line graph below shows how monthly independent living costs have shifted over the past five years in Lilac and how those changes compare with state and national trends. The figures represent quarterly averages of what seniors actually paid after moving into A Place for Mom partner communities.

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Independent living cost trends in Lilac, CA

The table below shows how monthly independent living costs in Lilac have changed in the last two years and how those changes compare with state and national trends. The figures represent averages of actual costs paid by seniors who moved into A Place for Mom partner communities in 2023 and 2024.

Cost comparison table showing 2023 and 2024 median costs by location. This table contains 3 rows of data across 4 columns.
Column location: Location
Column cost2024: 2024 average cost
Column cost2023: 2023 average cost
Column percentChange: Percent change
Location2024 average cost2023 average costPercent change
Lilac, CA$3,382/mo$3,420/mo-1.1%
California$3,692/mo$3,631/mo+1.7%
National$3,261/mo$3,166/mo+3.0%
Lilac, CA
2024 average cost:$3,382/mo
2023 average cost:$3,420/mo
Percent change:-1.1%
California
2024 average cost:$3,692/mo
2023 average cost:$3,631/mo
Percent change:+1.7%
National
2024 average cost:$3,261/mo
2023 average cost:$3,166/mo
Percent change:+3.0%
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Discover the many ways to pay for senior living

Planning ahead can better position you to make good choices for your loved one’s care in the future. But if your aging family member needs care now, there are ways to finance the cost of long-term care through a combination of approaches.

What families are saying about independent living in Lilac

Recent reviews for independent living in Lilac

Bayshire Carlsbad

5.0
they are very interactive with the residence, responsive, and also very friendly and kind The rooms sizes feel a little small, My dad is happy with the food and it looks good. I would recommend this facility to others.

Atria San Juan in San Juan Capistrano, CA

5.0
My Dad moved into Atria San Juan. The past year he has declined dramatically. Basically not doing anything at home. We moved him into a Studio. His life is back. He is out everyday. Sitting outside watching the golfers next door. Always sitting with other residents. Eating good meals. He lives ...
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Novellus Clairemont in San Diego, CA

4.0
My loved one has recently made the move into this community and so far I have no complaints of how things had been going for him. He has had a few health problems but other than that the experience has been pleasant for him. The staff have done a great job at staying organized in his care plan ...
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Reviews mention these favorite features of communities

Prompt response to maintenance requests. Residents praise the efficient handling of maintenance issues at various communities. For example, at Westmont of Riverside, staff members address problems quickly and communicate effectively with residents to ensure their needs are met. At Pacifica Senior Living Menifee, though there is a w ...
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Engaging and diverse activities. Activities are a significant factor for residents' overall satisfaction. At Brookdale Sunwest Independent Living, residents enjoy the variety of options and appreciate the social aspect of participating in activities. At Atria La Jolla, while there is a desire for more outings and events, th ...
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Accommodating and supportive staff. Staff members go above and beyond to create a welcoming environment for residents and their families. At Silvergate Retirement Residence - Fallbrook, the team is described as friendly, caring, and helpful. At Arcadia Place, staff members are responsive to residents' needs and supportive duri ...
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Quality and healthy meal options. Meals are an essential part of residents' daily lives, and many communities offer nutritious and delicious food choices. At Brookdale San Marcos, residents appreciate the tasty meals and the flexibility to accommodate dietary restrictions. At Grossmont Gardens, the food could use improvement ...
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Secure and peaceful community atmosphere. Safety and peace of mind are essential concerns for many residents. At The Camelot, the secure environment allows residents to feel at ease and enjoy a sense of community. At Wildomar Senior Assisted Living, the community is quiet and comfortable.
Effective communication between staff and families. Open and transparent communication between staff and families help ensure residents' needs are met and care is tailored to individual requirements. At Everest at Oceanside, families appreciate the regular updates and accessibility of the staff.
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Lilac independent living services and amenities

These charts highlight some of the many care, dining, and entertainment offerings available in Lilac independent living communities. They don’t represent all possible services and amenities available at assisted living communities in Lilac, but support comparisons against nationwide offerings. Our Senior Living Advisors can help you find communities that fit your preferences.

Availability of select dietary accommodations in Lilac independent living

Independent living communities help seniors maintain a balanced diet by accommodating their health needs, allergies, and other restrictions. Below you’ll find the percentage of Lilac partners making specific dietary accommodations for seniors compared to the percentage of assisted living partners making those accommodations nationally.
Lilac, CANational
Nutritionist / dietician
Nutritionist / dietician
27.6%
20.5%
Low / no sodium
Low / no sodium
44.1%
34.1%
No sugar
No sugar
41%
31.5%
Vegetarian
Vegetarian
47.5%
33.6%
Pureed meals
Pureed meals
13.4%
8.1%
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Availability of select dining options in Lilac independent living

Our independent living communities know that seniors want top-quality meals and options for how they dine. The chart below indicates the percentage of Lilac communities that offer dining options to their discerning residents compared to our partners nationally.
Lilac, CANational
Professional chef
Professional chef
40.6%
36.5%
Restaurant style dining
Restaurant style dining
46.7%
43.5%
Room service
Room service
44.4%
36.9%
Anytime dining
Anytime dining
27.6%
17.4%
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Availability of select programs and activities in Lilac independent living

Senior living communities offer a variety of programming to keep seniors socially, mentally, and physically vibrant. The chart below shows what percentage of partnered independent living communities in Lilac offer the selected activities, amenities, and programs compared to the percentage of partners nationwide.
Lilac, CANational
Activity director
Activity director
49%
45.3%
Pet-focused programs
Pet-focused programs
36.4%
28.4%
Community service programs
Community service programs
34.1%
32.8%
Devotional activities on-site
Devotional activities on-site
52.5%
49.3%
Parties / BBQs / happy hour
Parties / BBQs / happy hour
53.3%
49.8%
Outings / off-site activities
Outings / off-site activities
57.5%
54.9%
Piano or organ
Piano or organ
45.6%
43.1%
Arts and crafts center
Arts and crafts center
40.6%
37.7%
Educational speakers / life long learning
Educational speakers / life long learning
44.1%
41.7%
Clubs / games / karaoke
Clubs / games / karaoke
49%
47.5%
Live performances
Live performances
51.3%
47.3%
Dances
Dances
33.7%
32.6%
Fitness center
Fitness center
29.9%
39.8%
Fitness classes
Fitness classes
50.6%
47%
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